The Hidden Journal

I used to think healing meant choosing one side —
dark or light,
past or future,
broken or whole.

But life isn’t that clean.
It lives in the middle,
in the spaces that refuse to be labeled.

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There’s a kind of peace here —
in the gray,
in the almost,
in the parts of me still learning to hold both pain and beauty
without tearing myself in two.

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The light between isn’t harsh.
It doesn’t blind or burn.
It’s soft —
like morning after rain,
like forgiveness I didn’t know I could give myself.

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I’m not chasing brightness anymore.
I’m learning to rest in balance —
to let the shadows stretch beside the light
and know that both belong to me.

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Maybe healing isn’t a destination at all.
Maybe it’s this gentle in-between,
where I stop running
and finally learn how to stay.

— Desiree

Most people only meet the surface of me.
They see the calm,
the stillness,
the part that knows how to smile through anything.

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But underneath, there’s movement —
slow, ancient,
steady as the pull of a tide I’ve finally stopped fighting.

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Below the waterline,
my real work begins.
That’s where my memories live —
the ones that taught me to listen before I speak,
to notice before I react.

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It’s quieter down here,
but not empty.
There’s grief, yes,
but there’s also gold —
truth that could only form under pressure,
beauty that needed darkness to grow its shape.

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I don’t fear depth anymore.
It’s where my calm comes from.
It’s where I find the weight that keeps me whole
when the surface gets loud again.

— Desiree

For a long time, I mistook softness for weakness.
I built walls out of logic and called it peace.
I learned how to stay calm,
how to stay safe,
how to stay untouched.

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But healing asks for something harder —
to unclench,
to open,
to let life touch you again,
even when you don’t know if it’s safe yet.

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Softness isn’t the absence of strength.
It’s the courage to keep feeling
after everything that tried to harden you.

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I’m not who I was before the storm,
but I’m not made of stone either.
I’m something in between —
tender and steady,
gentle but awake.

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Every time I let my guard down,
I hear my heart whisper,
This is what living sounds like.

And that softness saved me.

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— Desiree

I didn’t realize how cold I’d gotten
until I started to thaw.

It wasn’t a sudden thing —
just small moments,
a softness sneaking back in.

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The sound of laughter that didn’t feel forced.
The comfort of being seen and not shrinking.
A kindness that didn’t need to be earned.

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This is where warmth begins —
in the gentle corners,
the quiet gestures,
the hands that don’t demand proof.

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For so long, I thought safety meant silence.
Now I know it’s what lets me breathe out loud.

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Not every story has a grand ending.
Some just end in peace.
And maybe that’s what I was looking for all along.

— Desiree

The quiet changed me.
It taught me how to listen —
not to the world,
but to myself.

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For a while, I thought the silence was punishment.
A kind of emptiness I had to survive.
But it was never empty.
It was waiting —
a still space that held room for who I was becoming.

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Now the noise feels different.
The world is still loud,
but I don’t lose myself in it anymore.
I know where my center is —
I can feel it hum when I start to drift too far.

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After the quiet,
the smallest things feel holy.
A laugh.
A song.
The sound of morning light touching the window.
Life moves again —
and this time, I move with it.

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I used to chase meaning.
Now I let it find me.
It always does —
after the quiet.

— Desiree

There’s a voice that doesn’t speak in words.
It hums beneath thought,
gentle but certain,
like the sound of a tide turning.

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For years, I drowned it out —
with noise,
with busyness,
with other people’s versions of me.
I called it quiet when really
I was afraid of what it might say.

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But it waited.
It always does.
It’s patient like that —
the part of me that knows before I do.

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Now, when I write,
I try not to force meaning.
I just listen.
I let that voice move my hands,
soft and steady,
like I’m being guided back home.

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It doesn’t speak of perfection or performance.
It only asks,
“What is true for you right now?”

And when I answer honestly,
I hear it smile.

— Desiree

People only ever see the tip of things.
The smile.
The calm tone.
The pieces I’ve already made peace with.

But below that — beneath the practiced light —
there’s the rest of me.
The unspoken,
the untidy,
the parts that still flinch when touched.

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I think about icebergs a lot —
how the smallest part floats above,
and everything else waits in the dark, holding it steady.
How the beauty of it
isn’t what shines in the sun,
but what survives in the cold.

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What I hide isn’t always pain.
Sometimes it’s power —
the kind that doesn’t need to announce itself to exist.
Sometimes it’s memory,
or softness,
or the version of me that’s still learning to breathe underwater.

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I don’t want to live entirely above the surface anymore.
I want to honor what keeps me anchored —
the depths that shape my calm,
the weight that steadies my warmth.

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This is my quiet offering
to the parts that no one claps for,
to the shadows that still love the light.

— Desiree

There’s a language I only speak in silence.
It lives in the corners of my mouth,
in the words I almost say,
in the messages I type and delete before sending.

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Some truths are too heavy for sound.
They lose their shape when spoken,
fall apart in the air between us.
So I keep them close —
press them between the pages of my mind
like flowers I never gave away.

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It’s not that I don’t want to share.
It’s that I’ve learned
how easily vulnerability can bruise
in the wrong hands.
How “I understand”
can sometimes mean “I’m no longer listening.”

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Still, there’s something sacred
about holding my truth quietly.
It teaches me patience,
and a kind of trust that doesn’t depend on being seen.

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So tonight I write it here —
the ache, the gratitude,
the things I could never say out loud
but always meant.

And maybe that’s enough.

— Desiree

Healing doesn’t announce itself.
It starts small —
a thought that doesn’t hurt as much as it used to,
a memory that stops burning when it touches you.

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At first, I mistook stillness for emptiness.
I thought the quiet meant I’d lost something.
But really, it was the sound of everything rearranging.
The ache was just roots finding new soil.

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There’s movement under the calm,
slow and deliberate —
like the earth breathing below a frozen field.
You don’t see it,
but you can feel the shift
if you stop long enough to listen.

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Some parts of me are still thawing.
Some are already blooming.
Both are beautiful in their own timing.

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Not all progress shines.
Sometimes it hums beneath the surface,
soft and certain,
whispering —
you’re still growing, even here.

— Desiree

There’s a part of me that doesn’t move when I’m watched.
It stays still — quiet, observant,
waiting for the room to empty.

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Some things aren’t meant to be seen in real time.
They unfold in silence,
in the long pauses between pretending and truth.
That’s where I find the softest parts of myself —
the ones that flinch when touched,
but still ache to be understood.

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People talk about transparency
like it’s the highest form of honesty.
But I think there’s honesty, too,
in holding something close to the chest.
Not everything needs a witness to be real.

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Sometimes what stays hidden
isn’t fear —
it’s faith.
Faith that some feelings are too sacred
to be handled by unsteady hands.

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So I let them live quietly inside me.
Not as secrets,
but as seeds.
And when they’re ready,
they’ll bloom in their own way —
without apology,
without permission.

— Desiree